Connections and the difference we make

Every winter for the past several winters I have spent some time with my parents in Perdido Key, Florida.  While there I take long walks on the deserted beach, rejuvenating and enjoying the solitude.  I am struck by the numbers and diversity of shells that wash up on the shore and it reminds me of the interconnectedness of all in this world of ours and the importance of our connections with each other and with those in our community we haven't yet met. 

Last Sunday (11/14) many of you participated in a quick survey the board was taking to find out your responses to the following questions:

• What is the most important difference Unitarian Universalism has made in your life?
• What do you want First U to be recognized for in the future?

I was not surprised to see that connection plays a role in your responses to both of these questions.  Here’s what you said, in summary.  We value spiritual freedom and religious choice, as well as enrichment and personal growth.  We value the open-mindedness of Unitarian Universalism and our respect for all.  The community we have found in this spiritual home has made a significant difference in our lives; we value the sense of belonging, inclusiveness and compassion we feel here and are inspired by our fellow members.  We value our children and hope that our church is one that is as welcoming to youth and young adults as it is to our older members.  Additionally, our hopes for the future are that we continue to be a loving, welcoming church community supporting individual’s spiritual growth; that we are an inspirational beacon and powerhouse for social justice, a religiously unifying force and a powerful partner and promoter of interfaith harmony, world peace and environmental sustainability – a vibrant, growing church.

The words in bold were among the most used words in your responses.  Check out the Board Bulletin Board in the parish hall to see a visual of the words you used and your specific responses in detail.  We will continue to explore your responses with you as we assess our goals for the next few years.  In the meantime, there's no reason we can't be all of these things.  Our ministers recently rolled out a transformed program for community action – the Ministry of Compassionate Action.  It's mission is transforming Wilmington into a just, loving and sustainable community.  This is a minstry that calls for personal connections and recalls the words of Rebecca Parker,

“Your gifts — whatever you discover them to be — can be used to bless or curse the world. You must answer this question: What will you do with your gifts? Choose to bless the world. None of us alone can save the world. Together — that is another possibility waiting.”

In support of our ministry in the community and the world, the Board will focus on incarnational growth in December - how we make a difference in the world.   Should our church take official stands on social issues of concern?  Which ones, and how can we be inclusive of those in our church who may have a different opinion.  Currently, board policy requires approval for such stands before our ministers or others can speak on behalf of the church - although ministers do have freedom of the pulpit.  This is a tricky issue - and something you should talk to us about.

In Faith,

Nancy